Ladies, we have some thing to tell you!!

‘All the men are like this’. An unpleasant sentence we men hate to hear from the women's mouth which turned out to be
a common,disagreeable and most repeated sentence for them. It sounds like we are inhuman, hypocrite,pervert and
sex maniac.
     When you say ‘All the men are like this’ please count the number of boys and men you know. Facebook or your cell
phone might help you on this. How many bad experience do you have? I believe 95% of the girls did not have any bad
experience from the people you have listed now. All you might know is the news you read in newspaper or you
happened to come accross through some other media.Oh yea,we would recommend the court (if we could) to cut down those penis for god sake.
       For those who say ‘he ogles at me big time’. Let me ask you one question. How many of you don’t stare any of them back
and how many of you do not enjoy any of them staring at you.I knew the answer already. Nothing more than a BIG ZERO.
      Sex is a very common thing in the society now a days. If a boy made love with a girl he loves and their parents happened to know about that?
    “Son of a ****, you ruined her life”. Even the girl who made love to him would say the same though it was her fifth person down the track. The boy who lost his virginity for his love suffers. The answer to his question would surely be
     ‘You are a boy’.
Because the society values girl’s virginity, not boys’. Why? Because we don’t have hymen? How about a guy who going to marry you says, "I am not virgin", will you marry him?
       When you heard about Murukan who raped a girl in the train and killed her, you said ‘All the men are like this’. Think about
the greatest personalities in India. Think about your father, Brother, best friend, boyfriend, husband and your son. Think
about the person who still pays the salary to the family of the same girl who was raped and killed.Curse Murukan, Not the
entire male community.
    When a friend who is a boy asks you to his life, you would say “how could he even think like that?” I believe he was opening
up himself to you. He was asking you whether you could be with him till the end because you are so special for him and he don’t want to miss you in his life ever, may be not even for asingle day. If you don’t like him tell him ‘I cannot be like that, I am sorry’. Instead what you would say is ‘All the boys are like this’. Hello, he was not asking you to bed. He was letting you know how much special you are for him.
     For those who think we don’t even hesitate to wear some one’s inner wear. Mam, you might have heard it in films and
for your kind information it happens only in films.
     Let me lent the thoughts someone shared through social media which i came across revently. Boys never ask his friend “Hey, your sister is so hot, introduce her to me".For us, sister to a friend is our sister too but I have heard girls saying ‘Sameera, your brother is so hot and handsome, introduce him to me yaar’.This sound really normal! Do you really think so?
     I know so many men who working abroad for years to make his family sound in all aspects who could visit their family only once in 3 or 5 years. They do every single thing to cut their cost to give one more pair of dress to his child back at home. They sacrifice their happiness so that their children studies without any sufferings and let their wife b happy.There are brothers who quit studies to make his younger siblings go school. My grandpa was of the same kind.There are fathers and brothers who work day and night to get his daughter or sister married.
      We are born a bit wild, a bit harsh and may be a bit rude. We accept it.But we always understand you as a father, as a brother, as a friend, as a husband or as a son. You don’t understand us every time though.I believe we proved it through participation in the protest against the Delhi rape case and I am extreamly proud to point out that we numbered twice than the entire female Protestants. I am pretty sure that it justifies my point.
     Have you ever realized when you curse the entire male community of the country, that you have a father who protects you and keeps you out of danger,you have a brother who fights with you often but takes you out for movies, shopping and cares about you so much, you have a best friend who surprises you on your birthday with your favourite gifts, you have a boyfriend who cross the road with you in such a way that if a vehicle hits accidently, it hits him not you, you have a
husband who takes your screaming child outside the cinema hall and let you watch the entire film? You enjoy every moment we give you and you curse the entire male community in the very next tick of the clock as a news flashes in the TV. You would say again “Why all these men are like this?”
     A son, a bother ,a friend, a boyfriend, a husband, a father ,a grandfather, if you think they have influenced you at some
point in your life then next time when your brain commands you to shoot the dialogue ‘All the men are like this’. Stop and try to empathize it once. Don’t we deserve a bit of respect? If you think ‘yes’ then please stop screaming out this unpleasing rotten dialogue on our face and try to be be specific.